The 10 questions that will reveal whether or not your partner gets a green, yellow or red light!


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0 Points

Take the test again or ask a trusted friend for input to be sure you’re not missing something. If you get a zero (0) score again, go for it—but keep your eyes open.


1-2 Points

Consider getting out now. If you’re not ready to get out, proceed with caution.


3-10 Points

Be extremely cautious before proceeding. Don’t commit to this person unless you’re ready to sacrifice greatly.

Disclaimer: This is an informal quiz. It’s not a scientific survey, but it can help
you think about whether your partner might have these traits. If you feel triggered or upset, you should stop right away. This is truly meant to just help you think about your life and what you want for yourself.